Freaking FINALLY! Success.
After researching and patching and researching and patching, I got it going
I lost the thread link but I found someone with a similar ASUS setup to mine, downloaded there EFI, made some changes to it to suit my board as best I could and tried it and it worked. I have no freaking clue what voodoo this person did to this EFI that made it work though, I looked it over from top to bottom and everything with it I had already tried 1000 times before.
That must be some good magic right there.
So here it is, my working Catalina EFI.
Oh yes, ASUS users who are using the same board as me or the same BIOS, I got confirmation from ASUS that for my specific board, the latest bios version that I can upgrade to that will allow me to downgrade my bios if I need to is 1005. For any version after 1005, it is forward moving only, meaning that the board will only let you upgrade, not downgrade
This is important information because while researching and trying to get this all working, I came across a lot of users who said that going past 1005 not only did not work for Catalina but also completely broke there existing Majove install that was working fine before the update.
So update to 1005 and try to get your install going but I do not recommend updating past 1005.
WiFi is not working and I believe that sleep needs some work. I have not had time to thoroughly put it through the ropes yet. Everything else is geat so far though.
And lastly, I want to thank everyone on this thread who did everything they could to help me out. It was all the information that you all provided that helped me figure this out. You guys are great!