welp you made my decision for me, returned the GSkill and got some Corsair since Amazon has such a large return window right now! Thanks for the help, got my usb hub today too so I hope to be installing macOS this weekend@kylejanderson
Thank you, I finally wanted to try the water cooling system... And now I am finally satisfied too...
I found a temporary solution (but you need Windows and macOS):
1) You start Windows --> so that the RAM takes over the correct settings
2) You restart your PC. So do not click on "Shutdown" but on "Restart". At such a "warm restart" the settings will remain in RAM, that means when you log in to macOS the RAM will still show the correct color.
I know it's a bit annoying but that's the only way I know.
2020-11-16 20:20:56.150542+0000 localhost kernel[0]: (AppleACPIPlatform) AppleACPIPlatformPower Wake reason: XDCI CNVW GLAN
2020-11-16 20:20:56.150543+0000 localhost kernel[0]: (AppleACPIPlatform) AppleACPIPlatformPower Wake reason: XDCI CNVW GLAN
2020-11-16 21:20:38.851332+0000 localhost powerd[68]: [powerd:sleepWake] Wake reason: "<private>" identity: "<private>"
2020-11-16 21:21:14.333495+0000 localhost kernel[0]: (AppleACPIPlatform) AppleACPIPlatformPower Wake reason: RTC (Alarm)
2020-11-16 21:21:14.333496+0000 localhost kernel[0]: (AppleACPIPlatform) AppleACPIPlatformPower Wake reason: RTC (Alarm)
2020-11-16 22:16:34.907724+0000 localhost kernel[0]: (AppleACPIPlatform) AppleACPIPlatformPower Wake reason: RTC (Alarm)
2020-11-16 22:16:34.907725+0000 localhost kernel[0]: (AppleACPIPlatform) AppleACPIPlatformPower Wake reason: RTC (Alarm)
2020-11-16 22:47:24.415887+0000 localhost kernel[0]: (AppleACPIPlatform) AppleACPIPlatformPower Wake reason: XDCI CNVW GLAN
2020-11-16 22:47:24.415888+0000 localhost kernel[0]: (AppleACPIPlatform) AppleACPIPlatformPower Wake reason: XDCI CNVW GLAN
2020-11-16 18:42:59 +0000 Sleep Entering Sleep state due to 'Software Sleep pid=1604':TCPKeepAlive=active Using AC (Charge:0%) 700 secs
2020-11-16 18:54:39 +0000 DarkWake DarkWake from Normal Sleep [CDN] : due to / Using AC (Charge:0%) 45 secs
2020-11-16 18:55:24 +0000 Sleep Entering Sleep state due to 'Maintenance Sleep':TCPKeepAlive=active Using AC (Charge:0%) 566 secs
2020-11-16 19:04:50 +0000 DarkWake DarkWake from Normal Sleep [CDN] : due to / Using AC (Charge:0%) 45 secs
2020-11-16 19:05:35 +0000 Sleep Entering Sleep state due to 'Maintenance Sleep':TCPKeepAlive=active Using AC (Charge:0%) 566 secs
2020-11-16 19:15:01 +0000 DarkWake DarkWake from Normal Sleep [CDN] : due to / Using AC (Charge:0%) 45 secs
2020-11-16 19:15:46 +0000 Sleep Entering Sleep state due to 'Maintenance Sleep':TCPKeepAlive=active Using AC (Charge:0%) 565 secs
2020-11-16 19:25:11 +0000 DarkWake DarkWake from Normal Sleep [CDN] : due to / Using AC (Charge:0%) 45 secs
2020-11-16 19:25:56 +0000 Sleep Entering Sleep state due to 'Maintenance Sleep':TCPKeepAlive=active Using AC (Charge:0%) 19 secs
2020-11-16 19:26:15 +0000 Wake Wake from Normal Sleep [CDNVA] : due to XDCI CNVW GLAN/HID Activity Using AC (Charge:0%)
2020-11-16 19:40:36 +0000 Sleep Entering DarkWake state due to 'Software Sleep pid=3325':TCPKeepAlive=active Using AC (Charge:0%)
Thanks ! Will check it out.Unfortunately I now have a different system and can't offer you any comparable comparisons. But take a look here, you will surely find what you are looking for:
https://www.tonymacx86.com/threads/success-gigabyte-designare-z390-thunderbolt-3-i7-9700k-amd-rx-580.26755