As far as I know, all the BCM94360 based cards are Bluetooth 4.x. None will give you Bluetooth 5.
BCM94360CSAX and BCM94360CD can do 1300Mbps because they have 3 and 4 antennas.
BCM94360 based cards can do 2.4GHz and 5GHz Wi-Fi fine.
Apple switched to Universal Scientific Industrial 339S00428 00012021 Wi-Fi/Bluetooth module for Wi-Fi and Bluetooth 5. However, all the Macs that use USI Wi-Fi/Bluetooth have the chips soldered to the motherboards. I believe the last time Apple used separate cards for Wi-Fi/Bluetooth were on 2013 model MacBook Airs.
I am unaware of any M.2 cards that use the same USI modules.
I am unaware of anything that has similar levels of compatibility with macOS as the BCM94360 based cards and are available in M.2 form factor or the Apple 12+6 connector.