Hi, Thanks so much for responding!
I have reverted back to 10.8, but I will try to reinstall 10.8.2, and video the boot up process in single user for you, and if Im not able to upload the video, ill post the most important screen shots. As far as I can see everything boots fine, the problem happens when I try to exit into the system from single user and start to enter the login screen. Then my monitors act as if they are not connected to any source of video (they have power, just as if the cable were unplugged). I was able to VNC in one time and noticed in the system information that my video card was not properly recognized. I am unable to VNC anymore, and there is not onboard graphics.
I do not know where to find the crash log. If you could tell me how to send it to you, I would gladly send that as well. Whatever information you need about the system and the problem just ask. I will be as detailed as I can. Thanks again so much for you help.