So one problem I had was I holding down the wrong F key... so I was getting this instead of what you had.
I changed the boot 1 to the mac OS drive. Still hanging...
I found realized that blue screen you showed had some of the things I hadn't been able to find and turned off VT-d there and now it works! I was able to log in to the Mac side w/o issue. (Ok the 1st time it totally kernal panick'd but it worked on the next restart).