So, to conclude:
I am finally having a EFI Setup I am perfectly content with - everything I need works. I also played around with TB3 a little bit and included a Patch/SSDT that enables usb-functionality after unplugging and replugging usb-c-peripherals without reboot. Without this SSDT, I could unplug a - say - Mouse and replug it on the left side and it would work. But on the right side port the mouse would not work again after replugging. This SSDT fixes that.
I attached my full EFI Folder in case you,
@NONITS, or somebody else needs it.
And to have some kind of "internet"-backup in case i loose it
cheers
PS: v22 in the filename indeed means that i needed 22 Versions to get there